“You are not a man
until you can prove yourself”
That statement alone
is what a man wrestles with almost all of his life, and it is a curse that
leads to brokenness that a man ever believes it. All a man’s life he is
constantly told how to be a man and is constantly manipulated to what it truly
does mean to be a man.
As a boy in high
school they are quickly told what it means to be a “man.” To get all of the
girls, to always be in control and play with their emotions, to be hooking up
and constantly being a ladies man. They are told to ignore authority and be
their own boss, to make fun of the peers who are not as ‘cool’ as them. They
believe the lie that it is cool to get drunk on the weekends and to get high
before school.
As a young life
leader I see all of this going on, and as a high school some of it very well
proves true to me. It is a sad misconception that boys believe these are things
they must doing to prove their manhood but it is a truth that one must confess
and accept as true because it happens daily.
In the film Noah we
see ham go through this curse of trying to understand what it means to be a man
and what he must do to fulfill that mission. The enemy is real and he does all
that he can in order to make these boys believe a lie. One that tells them they
are not good enough; that they must do all of this ‘bad’ in order to really be
men. The antagonist tells Ham he must rebel against his Father in order to
really be a man and that being a man means he must be able to kill. That very
misconception is what all boys going through in their lives today. Usually not
as intense as killing a man but even then, some lies get so twisted that it
comes down to that.
It is a sad curse that so many boys seem to believe and the film, Noah, does an excellent job of portraying that through Ham’s desire to truly become a ‘man.’
It is a sad curse that so many boys seem to believe and the film, Noah, does an excellent job of portraying that through Ham’s desire to truly become a ‘man.’
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